Wednesday, August 29, 2007
Polow Da Don Is Right, But....
A Black Man with knowledge of self, would never claim the title "King of the White Girls."
He contridicted himself, but unlike Miss South Carolina, he worked his way out of it and made it all make sense.
I take pleasure that a Black man can openly admit he dates white girls. Its something our ancestors worked hard for.
But the assumption is too broad for my taste. It came off as a slap in the face to Black women who have their minds right and want a good man to cater to.
He made it seem like we weren't good enough. When its Black men who have dropped the ball in our community not Black women.
Black women will stand by their man to a fault. It's not about being submissive. We are taught to be a backbone. In whatever areas your man is weak, you are taught to be strong, and vice versa.
We don't question our men unless there is something to be questioned. 'Why are you coming in the house at 2am?', 'Why didn't you take the time to call?'. Its about being considerate of the relationship.
Everything else I basically agreed with. As for Oprah not having a man, that was news to me. I thought her and Stedman were still making it do what it do. But for real, what man can date Oprah?
Polow Da Don: The Truth and Nothing But (Read This)
Polow Da Don: Talks To Black Women (Read This)